With almost forty years of military and para-military leadership (read Police) under my belt, I can say even leaders have leaders. In the moment, you may be the final authority and make decisions, but there is always someone you will answer to.
I hear someone saying Elon Musk doesn’t have a boss, but he’s still responsible to shareholders, laws and regulations. Somewhere in the back of his head is a voice that shaped him as he was growing up, still leading him. I have the same thing, it sounds remarkably like my grandfather. I also have a debit to my mentors, to pass on what I’ve learned.
In the main though, I’m a leader by default, inclination or disposition. I have little reservation about stepping up.
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For most of my adult life I have wondered and worried about why people need a “big man.” Whether that’s a tribal chief, a president, or an all-powerful God to save them, you are right that everyone has a leader. And we self segregate by the leaders we choose. Sometimes I wish it was otherwise.
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